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I Feel as Though I’m Losing My Kids

03 Sunday Jul 2016

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Family, Photography, Twins

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College, Dorm Life, Family, Twins

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My oldest just graduated college and my two daughters just graduated high school. My son is currently looking for a job while my daughters are working at a local water park from 9am until 8pm.  Both my daughters will be attending the same college where my son graduated and they will leaving sometime this month to start school.  Where has the time gone?  I was hoping that my daughters would spend some time at home before going off to school but they want to earn some money before leaving out.  I can’t blame them for that.  It’s just going to be harder on mom and me when they do finally move out.

I guess that’s part of being a parent.  Time for the kids to leave the nest.  I had my doubts about my son but he turned out pretty good.  My daughters are another story.  They will be sharing the same dorm but I feel that neither can live without the other.  They depend on each other so much. Both have separate majors so each will have their own classes.  They will just have to work it out on their own I guess.  Mom and I will be basket cases before it’s all over with.

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Negativity Gets You Nowhere!

26 Sunday Jun 2016

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Cancer, Depression, Photography

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Anniversary, Beach, Condo, Doctor, Down, Family, Heat, Humidity, Kids, Sand, Steakhouse, Sunset, Vacation, Water, Waves

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I’ve been down on myself the last few weeks. I thought being on vacation would snap me out of it but the whole time I was gone I kept thinking of the time lost that I would have when I returned back to work.  The exciting news that I got from my doctor while I was away seemed to have helped but now that I have my doubts about the results I just can’t help but feel down again.

The heat has a lot to do with it I feel because I wanted to do something with my kids today being that they were home and not working but everytime I went outside I was just drained from the heat and humidity.  Plus, with all this humidity, it makes it difficult for me to breath.  The next two days the rain chances has increased to 70% so maybe after the storms roll in here at least it will cool things off a bit.

This coming Thursday, June 29th, I will have been married for 25 years.  I have already made reservations for Saturday at a place called Perry’s Steakhouse.  It’s a bit pricey but my wife is worth it.  Putting up with me and all my ailments; she deserves more than a pricey steak and a night on the town.  She’s going to flip when she sees the prices on the menu though. But maybe the flowers that I have ordered that will be sitting on the table when we arrive will take away some of the shock.  We don’t usually go out on the town like this.  It’s usually places like Logan’s steakhouse where you pay $12 to $15 for a steak or go to Cracker Barrel.  Those places are more to our taste.  If I get out of Perry’s for less than $200 I’ll be lucky.

July 4th is coming up in a week and I have that day off which means a three day weekend.  If I can just make it through this week.  So you see, I have a couple of things to look forward too.  With this in mind maybe I can get out of this slump that I’m in and I can have a brighter outlook.  It’s going to take me some time for me to build up more vacation time but at least my doctor’s appointments are down to a minimum right now.  That’s another thing that has me upset is the fact that right now if I have a family emergency I can’t do anything about it.  I can’t take off right now if I had too.  Tomorrow, if I’m not wrong, I should have 10 hours built up.  That’s not much but it’s a start.

I hope everyone has a great week ahead.

 

 

A Lot Going On

10 Tuesday May 2016

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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Alabama, Disney, Family, Flowers, Graduation, High School Graduation, Orlando Florida, Rose, University of Alabama, Vacation

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It’s been a busy past few weeks here in the deep south. In fact, the whole month of May is going to be very busy.  My son graduated from the University of Alabama this past Friday evening, my twin daughters had their spring concert last week, and they had their awards program tonight to list a few.  I’ve got cataract surgery on Thursday, a bicycle ride that I’ll be working communication this Sunday and my daughters graduation in two weeks.  Not to mention a couple of other doctor appointments thrown in there for good measure.

I knew this month would be busy and I’m trying to build my vacation time up so I’ve been working a lot of overtime so as to not have to take personal time when taking time off.  It’s an okay plan but I’m not getting home until late and the girls have already gone to bed when I do get home.  I’ve got a week in June that I’ll be taking off to take the kids to Disney in Orlando Florida so I’ve got to have at least forty hours to be able to take off.  It will be close but I’ll make it.

It’s Been a Challenging Year.

26 Friday Feb 2016

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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accident, Auto, Caregiver, Collision, Family, Hospital, ICU, Oxygen, Siblings, Walker

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On February 8th my mom and dad were heading to pick up my 11 year old nephew from school when out of nowhere this car veered over into their lane and hit them head on.  Both mom and dad suffered many broken ribs, fractured sternums, collapsed lungs and many cuts and bruises.  Dad also suffered several fractured vertebrae and along with a collapsed lung, he had a small hole in one of his lungs creating fluid to build up around his heart.  The first hospital they were rushed to could not handle dad’s injuries so they decided to ship them to UAB trauma center which in my opinion is one of the best hospitals in the southeast.

For nearly three weeks, both mom and dad were laid up in the hospital, mom in TBICU and dad in TBU. As of this past Saturday they went to stay with my brother until they can learn to do things for themselves.  They are still on oxygen and having to use a walker to get around.  They are doing much better but they have a long way to go.

For these three weeks my siblings and I have taken turns spending time with my parents trying to help them the best way we know how.  Both my parents are in their late 70’s and even before the accident, were having difficulties getting around.  Now, it’s doubtful that they will ever get back to where they were before the accident.

365 Day Photo Challenge 359/365 “Merry CHRISTmas”

24 Thursday Dec 2015

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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365 Day Photo Challenge, Families, Family, Merry Christmas

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Merry CHRISTmas to one and all.  I hope everyone gets to spend some time with your families.

365 Day Photo Challenge 344/365 “Family Matters”

09 Wednesday Dec 2015

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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365 Day Photo Challenge, Alabama, Christmas, Family, Family Time, Football

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My son is home for a few days for Christmas and I’m really excited.  He’s got to go back to school on the 28th of this month because the band is flying to Dallas for the football game.  He’s also got several days that he’ll be spending away from home for the basketball games the pep band is playing in.  So, although he’s home for Christmas, he’s going to be gone a lot of the time as well.

We’ve accepted the fact that he’s now a young man and will not be able to spend all his free time with the family.  So we will be treasuring every minute that we get to spend together as a family.  Who knows how many more times we’ll get to spend the holidays together as a family.  I hope many more.

“Life Goes On!”

365 Day Photo Challenge 331/365 “Happy Thanksgiving”

26 Thursday Nov 2015

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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365 Day Photo Challenge, Cancer, Cast Iron, CML, Cooking, Dutch Ovens, Family, Leukemia, Recipes, Thankfull

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I’m stuffed to say the least.  I’m thankful that my family is here with me today.  With the kids getting older I’m not sure how much time we have with them.  I know that they will always try to come home for the holidays.

I’m also thankful that I’m still here to be able to spend time with my family.  With the diagnosis of CML my life was changed forever.  I’m thankful for the men and women who discovered the drug and for all those patients who did the case study that allowed the passage of this drug to take place.

We spent time with my wife’s family today.  Tomorrow I’ll be able to spend time with my mom and dad.  I’ll get up early tomorrow and cook breakfast for my family then I’ll start working on a Dutch Oven dish to take to my parents.  This will be the first time that I’ve cooked for the parents in my Dutch Ovens so I’m excited about this.

Speaking of Dutch Ovens, I have a new blog that I would like for you to check out.  It’s going to be full of different recipes that I have gathered over the past several years.  If you like cast iron cooking this will be for you.  If not, then don’t feel obligated to follow.  I posted my first post just moments ago.  https://thecastironblackpot.wordpress.com/

Again, Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

“Life Goes On!”

 

365 Day Photo Challenge 330/365 “Day 25”

26 Thursday Nov 2015

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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365 Day Photo Challenge, Family, Thanksgiving

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I can’t believe that tomorrow is Thanksgiving.  This year has moved along so fast and it seems that every year it gets faster and faster.  Christmas will be here before you know it and of course I’m far from being ready for it.

Tomorrow will be spent with family as I hope that everyone else will get to do the same.  Thanksgiving is a time to give thanks for what we have and maybe for things that we don’t.

I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving tomorrow and have a lot to eat.

“Life Goes On!”

 

 

 

365 Day Photo Challenge 301/365 “RESPECT!!”

27 Tuesday Oct 2015

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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365 Day Photo Challenge, Family, Respect, Teacher

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Or lack thereof.

Please forgive the rant and it may not do anything but relieve my blood pressure.

Within the past few weeks there have been at least five incidents where either a police officer or a teacher has been in the news because of their actions toward kids or young adults.  In most cases the first thought that comes to most people’s minds is it’s the adults fault for his/her action.  Only last week at our child care facility two adults were arrested for physically abusing a toddler.  To me that’s just sick.  The toddler has no control of his/her actions therefore the adult is automatically at fault, especially if it’s caught of camera.

When the child is older, say a teenager that could be something different.  We’ve become people that are so quick to judge and just look at the front end we forget to look at the complete picture before passing judgement.  We as Christians aren’t supposed to judge anyway, but that’s beside the point.  The point I want to make is the the young people of today do not have respect for their elders.  It’s plain as the nose on my face, as my grandmother used to tell me.  If I treated my mom or dad the way a lot of these young people treat their folks or any other adult as the case may be, I couldn’t walk for a week.  I went to a high school football game the other night where a young girl was yelling at her mother.  First of all, from what I saw at this conversation, this was not the first time the young lady had talked to her mom that way, which is sad.  Where is the respect?  Where’s the discipline?  Is it not taught in the home anymore?  My kids know it not because I’ve seen it with my own eyes but because other people have told me how well behaved they are and how they are respectable young ladies.

The reason I bring this up because today a very good friend of mine’s wife was arrested today on child misconduct charges.  This lady has been teaching high school special education for over 28 years and has never had any problems with any child.  According to the news reports the child was injured and the parents are blaming the teacher.  We don’t have both sides of the story but the truth will come out in the end.  What I fear is going on because I know the type of kids she’s teaches there is that the parents are looking for attention and maybe even some money in court.  There again I have to ask, where is the respect for the other families involved.  If there is a case, if there is misconduct on the teachers part then so be it.  But if not and it’s only a ruse to get money then you’ve just destroyed the teacher’s reputation, the family’s reputation and the teachers job, for what?  Makes me sick.

Rant Over.  Pray for this family.

“Life Goes On!”

365 Day Photo Challenge 230/365 “Time Flies When You’re Having Fun!”

16 Sunday Aug 2015

Posted by Tim Hughes Living with CML in Photography

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365 Day Photo Challenge, Cats, Family, Relaxation, Sleep

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This is what I wanted to do all weekend but it didn’t go as planned.  I did get a few things accomplished and I did get to spend some time with my family as well as my mom and dad this weekend.  Why does the weekend always seem to go faster than the week. Time flies when you’re having fun I guess.

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